Mommy's first visit; transfer to Johns Hopkins

Thank you all for coming together last night and lifting Sophia up in prayer! Quick update: the air around her heart has begun to go away as shown in several X-rays. The docs are hoping the pneumoparacardium solves itself without having to operate. Nothing much has changed except that she's developed jaundice and the docs increased her oxygen over night to 100%. She will be treated for at least 10 days for pneumonia, and then we'll take it day by day.

Sophia truly completes the lives of Haleigh and me, in a way we could never describe. When the transport nurse practioner explained to us she would have to operate on Sophia during transit if her heart got worse, she used the words, "because at that point it's the only thing that will save her life." We could barely manage our emotional distress when presented with the gravity of that scenario, and of course the crying was immensely painful on Haleigh's abdomen. So please understand the reason I requested that no one contact Haleigh. She is feeling better now though.

The following pics are from Haleigh's first visit with Sophia, 2 days after the c-section. It was a heart-warming moment, and the icing on the cake was that Sophia started moving immediately after hearing Mommy's voice. :)

Look at that head of hair!

Then, the sad part. The Neonatalogist at Howard County General discovered pneumoparacardium (the wall of air around Sophia's heart) and ordered a transfer to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore. This pic is just before the team began prepping her for transport (by ambulance).

The nurse practitioner on the team was very nice and reminded me of my Aunt Kathy. The team didn't allow me to follow, but I made it clear to them that while Sophia was just another baby to them, she was my daughter, and they were transporting the future first female president of the United States.

Upon arrival to Johns Hopkins, the new doctor replaced the ventilator with one more gentle. They took X-rays and already saw a decrease in the air built up around the heart. Thanks be to God!

Here she is at the new NICU. I showed up about an hour after they admitted her. She fussed a little so I had the doctor tear down the hideous wallpaper and make the lighting softer on the walls. I could tell that's what her problem was...

In conclusion, Haleigh's OB saw her this morning and after learning about Sophia's transfer offered to discharge Haleigh early. Since it is the third-and-a-half day after the c-section, the Dr. thought it was no problem to release her. We will be leaving Howard County within the hours and take Haleigh home. Our house is closer to Baltimore so as I continue commuting between the two loves of my life, it will be easier on all of us. Melissa, Haleigh's mom who chose "Grammy" as her grandparent title, will be here tomorrow to help us at the house. This will be extremely helpful!

Thanks again everyone. Please continue to pray for our little girl. And for that matter remember Ashlie and Brad Cook's little one, Bradie, who has spent way too much of her precious life inside a hospital. Also, of course most of you know Trey Sutton and his family, and we continue to pray for God to heal him as well.

Peace be with you all!

Transfer to Johns Hopkins

This is Tim. The Neonatalogist here at Howard County General in Columbia, MD discovered this afternoon some air around Sophia's heart. The medical term for this wall of air is pneumopericardium (sp?). An increase in the amount of air around (our precious angel's) heart would be bad, and would call for an interventional cardiologist to inject a needle into the air wall and extract the air which is not supposed to be there.

The best hospital to monitor Sophia's heart (and lungs and blood for that matter) is Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, about 20-40 minutes away from Howard County, depending on traffic. The Hopkins Transport Team just came and picked Sophia up in an ambulance to transfer her to Baltimore. The interventional cardiologist at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit there will be able to perform the necessary operation in the event that this wall of air does not dissipate naturally.

Please pray for our little angel. Only I will be able to see Sophia for now since Haleigh does not get discharged from Howard County until Sunday. I am about to make the drive now to ensure my baby gets settled and that she likes the wallpaper in her new hospital. (She's already so particular about interior decorating!) Now, keep in mind that Johns Hopkins is the best of the best. If any medical institute can take care of our girl, it's Johns Hopkins in Baltimore.

Please call me, NOT Haleigh, until further updates. Any emotional stress for Haleigh needs to be avoided as she recovers from her c-section. You all are the best. Love, Tim.

6 pounds 1 ounce - 1:39 AM on May 12th, 2010 :)

Dearest family and friends,

This is Tim writing. Forgive us for taking so long time to update information here, but I only had time (and barely at that) to post pics the other day. Here is the situation:

On Monday the 10th, Haleigh had strong contractions that were 1 to 3 minutes. We rushed to the hospital only to be discharged 4 hours later with the infamous 'false alarm' diagnosis. Haleigh wouldn't dilate because the contractions weren't strong enough. Fast forward 18 hours and 4 hot baths later, the contractions still had not subsided but grew more intense instead (keep in mind Haleigh's only 36 weeks and 5 days).

We rushed back to the hospital and learned that Sophia's heart rate was very high, the contractions very strong and frequent, and Haleigh had a mild fever. She still would not dilate after all these hours of strong contractions. Dr. Rojas first concluded that these unproductive contractions, together with Sophia's heart rate and Haleigh's fever, were a result of a uterine infection (Choreo-Ammionytus). Dr. Rojas became very concerned for the mommy and daughter's health. Upon this conclusion, the wrist bands were slapped on us and we knew then we wouldn't be going home without a baby.

Dr. Rojas's original plan was to treat Haleigh with an antibiotic and bring down Sophia's heart rate. In the meantime we would wait until the strong contractions finally caused dilation. He agreed to grant Haleigh her number-1 wish then and there- an epidural. :) Unfortunately, when the good Dr. checked her again several hours later, she was still not dilated. Dr. Rojas was perplexed. After staring silently (for what seemed like an eternity) at Sophia's heart rate and Haleigh's contractions and examining Haleigh's pelvic bones, he believed that Haleigh's pelvis was too small to deliver a baby even as small as six pounds. Instead of delaying the inevitable and also to rescue Sophia from a stressed environmment (her heart rate had come down but was beginning to increase again), he decided to conduct a c-section immediately.

Haleigh then gave birth at 1:39 AM on Wednesday the 12th. Now we are waiting for Haleigh to finally see her very own baby, Sophia Hayden Rice. In the hussle and bustle of transferring Haleigh from the OR to the recovery room to the materninty ward room, only I was able to go to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. Haleigh has been a fighter and hero through all of this. Hey pain and discomfort are often high but her spirits remain high always. On a personal note, my mind was going 90-miles-an-hour through all of this. Seeing my beautiful, amazing and precious life-partner being cut open with 6 medical staff surrounding her was almost unbearable as I felt as helpless as ever in my life. Additionally, I could barely manage after realizing that our new baby Sophia was experiencing breathing problems. When the Neonatalogist found me and asked me for consent to perform a spinal tap on our baby, I almost collapsed. I was not prepared for this.)

Sophia's complications can be summarized with the diagnosis of pneumonia and persistent pulmonary hypertension (PPHN). For the pneumonia the doctor has her on antibiotics for at least ten days, and for the PPHN Sohpia is intebrated with a ventilator going down her throat into her stomach. Apparently her lungs did not develop enough to know that they were supposed to be receiving blood and passing it along (since the placenta does this for the fetus). The result then is respiratory stress syndrome. Dr. Blackman (what a cool name!) administered a protein chemical called sefactint (sp?) to which Sophia's lungs responded positively, but the Dr. still assumes there is pneumonia given her X-rays.

Needless to say, this is a happy but hard time for us. While we understand the conditions could be much worse, the babies I see in the regular nursery when I pass them on the way to the NICU remind me that conditions could be much better as well. Even so, we are nothing but thankful for the beautiful blessing we now have the privilege to call our daughter. We are ready to welcome her into our home, coddle and spoil her, and ask Sophia what she thinks about her nursery.

I want to thank all of you for your prayers, love and support. While we may be far from all of you, we know we're not alone.

Dear God, we ask you to bless our little Sophia and restore her to full health in mind and body. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen.

So as not to end on a negative note, Haleigh and I believe Sophia has Haleigh's nose, eyes and ears and she carries the characteristics of my chin and ...bottom lip? (hal's words, not mine) We'll keep you updated!

9 Months Pregnant/Tim's Promotion Ceremony

I'm officially 9 months pregnant. I had a Dr. Appt. Wednesday and it went great. The Dr. said Sophia definitely will not be a big baby..maybe 7 lbs. I will be induced in about 3 weeks. She can't induce me until I reach 39 weeks, which is May 27th, so we are shooting for that day. Sophia has dropped already, so life is pretty uncomfortable. At this point, I wouldn't mind going into labor on my own; before 39 weeks. I'm definitely ready!

In other important news, Tim was promoted to E6-Staff Seargent on May 1st. I was able to be a part of the promotion ceremony and actually pin the new E6 rank on his uniform. It was very special for us. Congratulations honey!

p.s. I had to throw in a picture of our first born, Molly

Tim's Promotion/Award Ceremony
Tim's Commander presenting him with an Army Achievement Medal for his high scores (3,3) on his Arabic Proficiency Test

Taking off his E5 rank and pinning on E6

Tim giving a nice little speech at the end

36 weeks and counting down...Come on Sophia!

The Nursery is FINISHED!! (also, 33-week-belly)

Thank you, Ellen! (these beads come all the way from Jerusalem, made from olive trees)

The END! Sophia should be moving into her nursery on May 27th! We love you all!

8 months pregnant!

I'm 8 months pregnant today...it's going by so fast! I literally only have 7 weeks until my scheduled c-section. We are getting so excited, and I cannot wait to have her and not be pregnant anymore :) Her room is almost completely finished. We have to hang a couple of shelves and then we're finished. I have washed and put up almost all of her clothes already. But other than that, we are ready for her!

I went to the Dr. this past week and found out that I had actually lost 1 pound. CRAZY! I feel like I eat all the time. She recommended that I up my intake a bit and eat an extra snack everyday..so that's what I'm doing. I have gained 15 lbs, but I feel like I've gained 50. I'm just waiting to blow up! I'm sure it will all hit me at once..everyone says you gain the most towards the end. I'm still walking a few times a week, so that helps keep extra weight off I suppose. Although I haven't gained as much as the Dr. would like at 32 weeks, she is not concerned because Sophia is measuring perfectly. For eight months pregnant I have been feeling great. Besides the expected back aches and occasional cramping I can't complain. Tim and I are so ready for her to be here. I can't wait to get back into shape either! haha.

We'll keep you posted!

29 Wk Belly/Nursery Mural/Park

I'm 7 months and 1 week now and definitely feeling like it. We've been painting the mural for about 2 weeks now and almost completely finished. We may add an elephant if there is room after her furniture is set up. Sophia is already so spoiled; it's ridiculous.

The weather has been amazing so we did a 2 1/2 mile walk around the park today. The exercise put Sophia to sleep and wore Molly out :) Enjoy the pics. We love you guys!